Making Mistakes

When I last starting dating 5 years ago I was used to someone calling right after they met you. I guess they were interested in me because when that happened all those calls turned into relationships. As I have started dating again this has happened. However, I have made the biggest mistake in dating by being the girl who calls to much. I start to make it less of a challenge for men, which I have been told makes me less appealing. Who knows, but I am really going to try and make myself less available, which goes against who I am. I am going to have to go against every instinct that I have.